Do not pool failed CUDA streams - #2236

Summary

When CUDA stream creation fails, stream_provider still engages own_stream_ with the null handle. Its destructor then returns that handle to the pool, and a later borrower can receive it with cudaSuccess.

• Keep own_stream_ disengaged when stream acquisition fails.
• Add a CUDA API interception regression test in an isolated executable.
• Avoid returning failed handles to the stream pool.

Tests

• cmake --build build --target test.nvexec.stream_pool --parallel 4
• ./build/test/nvexec/test.nvexec.stream_pool
• cmake --build build --target test.exec test.stdexec --parallel 4
• ./build/test/test.stdexec
• ./build/test/exec/test.exec